“I Am An Abuser”

"She calls me being upset about lies, abuse."

"She calls me being upset about infidelity, abuse."

"She calls me being upset about the living conditions my son was under, abuse."

"She calls me being upset about never being told sorry- not once, abuse."

"She calls me being upset about finding out she moved herself in my son without my consent or knowledge, abuse."

"She calls me trying to reach out to my son so I don't feel alone in this, abuse."

"She calls me being upset because she is hiding my son from me and giving him only her side of the narrative, abuse."

"She calls me being upset that I was taken off of my son's birth certificate as his father, abuse."

"She calls me being upset because she bed “hired” an arrogant wallet replacement to stand in the way between me and my son, abuse."

"She calls me being upset about being hurt consistently over years, 13 YEARS, forgiving her again and again and trusting her when she said she wouldn't do it anymore, and then coming to the realization that she meant this the whole time, abuse."

"She calls me being upset that I feel like I'm trying to be erased and replaced, abuse."

"She calls me being upset about her consistently getting away with the above and no one ever holding her accountable, abuse."

Not once, not a single instance, EVER have I ever gotten physically violent or even had the thought of bringing harm to her or my son. EVER. Nor will it ever happen, ever.

She calls me consistently, relentlessly demanding for answers from her for my own piece of mind and unrelentingly demanding the relationship with my son, and trying to reclaim the part of that that was stolen all these years, abuse.

And then people wonder why we turn into animals. How much pain do people and the systems we have in place expect us to take? You simply can't expect to consistently prod at every basic instinct a husband and father has for his love and children and not expect this to happen.